Everyones choices are different. As for two ball putters & mallet putters of that type. They are not for everyone. I tried that sort of putter out of curiosity in the past & really could not get on with that lump swaying behind the putting face.

Infact I'd go as far as to say everyone should start with a bladed putter of one sort or another as to play anything else is mearly a crutch & an unessesary one at that. They can help some people but. I'd recommend something like a John Letters bladed putter. I have one & it works every bit as well as my Yes putter or any others of my more expensive putters.

As for Driver. Everyone wants a driver in their bag. But the words of caution are well founded. Thed irony is that the larger face is supposed to be easierto hit, but in reality nothing could be further from the truth

Benross do do some great woods & drivers, certainly worth a go Their Trimass range was/is great Just see what deals are available on quality drivers when you go down to your local golf emporium. Try some out. For a beginner 12 degrees loft or similar is a good start, but some people might not need this, however your golf pro, or the pro at a golf store will be able to advise.

As to whether to go for a large headed 3 wood or a small headed fairway wood. my preference is for the small headed as they can be used both off the fairway, out of the rough & off the tee. The smaller head will also focus your concentration better on a good swing.

Oh and I would be tempted to leave the driver in the bag unless the fairway is wide or the course open. But learn to use it & practice with it along with the other clubs in your bag.